Megical Week to Move Ahead with Dreams

Opps ! Its been ages since I posted my last blog post. But today I am again here. Hemali, the same girl who believes in enjoying life to the fullest.


This morning I waked up just before soft pink glow over the sunshine. Even though the weather has grown colder and the day was a bit cloudier, I still enjoyed being up early and sitting with my first cup of tea with family, watching the world around me and coming up to life. I was really enjoying.Not sure why but in past few months, there seems to be much harder situations in my world that comes from intolerance. Although most of us have little control over this events and time by time I realized that its a part of life.

I would say it really takes a lot of strength to be compassionate, especially when you are up against harshness, cruelty, anger and fear. Some mistake are being considered as a sign of weakness. What if the difficult behavior you experienced actually had nothing to do with you? 


Well well ! that is not much important for me now. Today ! I just want to think about me and him :) I am having a loving partner who takes care of me more than my self. When I am busy, he helps. When I cry, he try to get smile on my face. When I get angry, he used to do childishness. When I am tensed about something, he used to explain. When I ask for something, he used to be more happy than me. When I tease him, he used to sketch up my funny pics. The days and nights would be short if I start writing about him here. But I would really say he is none other than the love of my life. 


Since last few months, I am realizing that I am being mature enough. I know its kinda joke but yeah its true as well. I wasn't knowing what is called Relationship. But now I can feel what it is!! The most common thing about both of us is our common DREAM. And these days, we feel that we are stepping up the ladder of that Dream. God Bless Us. 


In my life I have always noticed that when I focus on clarifying what I observe, feel, need, and want, rather than on diagnosing and judging, I can discover my own better life with good friends and family. If I am able to look at other people and myself with this wider heart, I can begin to change the quality of my own life. Hoping to have the same positive attitude for the life ahead.


Someone has truly said that, Once we find peace within ourselves, we will find it around us.


- Hemali

Flashback to the year 2009 :P

Since last so many days,I was feeling like my blog is lonely without me as I know what is called loneliness !! but anyways finally the last month of 2009.It was a very memorable year for me,afterall I have completed my masters this year and started my journey :). Even have very memorable and touchy moments this year.

But to be honest,this time of year, visions of festive parties and gatherings come to my mind. That's because I tend to have great fun with my friends during the end of year...whether it was school life or college life.But dont know the exact reason why this year some of my friends complain of experiencing empty and depressed feelings, even when they have lovely families and many dear friends.Its really strange.Still having 10 more days to wait and just hoping that we all will have party time on 31st Dec.lets see...

Well let me think about myself.whenever I feel down,I used to contact a friend I haven't spoken to in a while, attending a party with a close friend, or even visiting that old auntie who is probably secretly feeling lonely too. I strongly feel like Choosing to get out there and being with people regardless of my own situation can really help me reduce feelings of loneliness.

Even the act of giving is also an effective way to eliminate feelings of loneliness. When I choose to help others who cannot help themselves or for whom I want to do something byheart,I feel like I am connecting with my fellow man.Or even volunteering my time for the things I love to do.

I really love to treat myself to something special like going for a family get to gather, indulging in my favorite hobby, or going with friends for a favorite movie or say reading a good book.These tricks really help me to come out of some of the uncontrolled situations.

Good bye to 2009 :D

-Hemali

Me feeling my dreams :)

For me, certainly there are many factors beyond my control that can affect me. So, I have been searching for the ways to regain some sense of control and I guess the first thing I need to do is to work on a vision of how I want my life to be, as well as a clear plan on how to get there. It is surprising how many times I ask myself about the direction I want to go in, only to discover that I am simply wandering along just letting life happen to them, all the while wishing that my dreams would come true.

But sometimes I strongly feel like Why should I sit back, waiting for life to happen as it will, when I have the power to set my own goals and the energy and desire to make my dreams a reality? Setting goals puts me squarely in charge of my own life, and that is a very desirable situation, That is why I have decided to follow few simple tricks I have found helpful in making goal setting even easier and more successful.

Parents says be sure to state your goal in positive terms. For example, "I am always on time" is preferable rather than saying "I am never late". My sir told me that write down your goal on paper and it will help to anchor it in your mind, so write it down every day, and make certain that you keep your goal centered on you and not someone else.My friend says spend time with your self,ask your self what you want,listen your heart what it says and you will be clear with what you want from life.

for me, I personally feel like if I have goals that are set for the future, my subconscious mind will keep those goals in the future.So for me,it is best to always write my goals as if they were already happening or had already happened.The think I most like is whenever I write my goal...I used to imagine myself already being,doing or having the things that I am dreaming about

I hope that my imagination will help me to make my dreams a reality.

Importance of little things in my life

Every day, there are things in my life that I dismiss as luck or chance or simply take for granted. Certainly there are times when events throw me completely off balance or make me feel afraid. But I think that most of the time I am so involved with my daily routine, whether it be with work, responsibilities, friends and family, that I forget to notice the things around me that make my life better. According to me the truth is that, no matter what is going on in my life, there are no ordinary moments, no minutes or seconds that are meaningless. And most of all, I will never get back those moments that pass without recognition.

Thats why it makes sense to look for the daily gifts .I still remeber today in the morning I awoke to hear birdsong outside my window and then got up and had enjoyable moments while mom and dad were talking abt my childhood habits ...laughed a lot at tht moment. Later during the day enjoyed music on the whole way frm my home to office...then I came upon one cute cat taking advantage of a golden patch of sun glowing across my office stairs. I enjoyed some playful moments with tht kitty, then I was serious about my work..enjoyed wid colleagues... all the while feeling grateful for the little things, the many small pleasant gifts in my life, like funny moments, a happy cat, music and singing birds.

At first glance these things may seem rather unimportant, but when I think about what life might be like without them, I appreciate them all the more, and the bigger and more wonderful they seem to be. And if I think about it, I may agree that the little things are what either drive me crazy or make me happy. So, the little things in life really are important, even if they may not seem to be at the time.

For me, the best thing about recognizing such moments is that when I pay attention and open myself up to them, I notice them all the more and feel like I may even attract more of them my way. The end result is that I am happier and more content with my life and consider each day different in its own way. I am feeling like little miracles happen every day. Flowers bloom, babies are born and we get to be a living. Life is really wonderful.

Keep Smiling
Hemali

Confused Mind :( :)

There is no doubt that sometimes I am totally confused. That is why today I have decided to write about transforming my confusions or experiences into valuable moments for my future successes. I know confused mind is never pleasant, but that does not make them bad. They are a natural part of my life's flow. Believe it or not, there are benefits to experiencing such situations.

I think I can learn valuable lessons that will benefit me in the end. My confused mind causes me to reprioritize my life. These periods give me the opportunity to think about the things that are important to me and remind me not to take them for granted. Confusions can also strengthen my relationships and communities. In times of need or say solution, friends/family naturally pull together. These are the times when I need others and they need me.

For me my own confused mind forces me to be more innovative by pushing me to seek new directions and encourage me to be more flexible and determined. But on the other hand confusing situations can also be a heart touching experience by reminding me that I am human with heart, just like everyone around me. I hope that my own thoughts will help me to confront the times I am living right now. So the next time whenever I feel the weight of my current confusions, I will give myself a pat on the back for all that I am dealing with and give a hug to those who mean so much to me. I wish this post of mine will help me to put my current confused mind in perspective and give me new courage and patience in tackling them.

Have a Good Day !!
Hemali

My New Year

ohhh after a long time I am again here on my blog...I have never thought that someone will find my blog and read this as well as write comments here....but frankly speaking I am writing here for myself and that too in a free time or say jst my hobby :) If I am hurting any1's feelings then Sorry.

well this is my first post in 2009 sooo let me flash back to d last year.....When I think back on 2008, I can say with certainty that the year has been far from boring. but on a more positive side, people around the globe seem more interested in peace than ever before. Focusing on peace and hope is a great way to start the new year. For me peace and hope begin inside of me and then, like a rippling effect, spread outward to those around me, like my friends, family, coworkers and more. oohhh I think thts a wonderful way to spread positive thoughts and energy whts say ?? I can invite the positive into my own life.

My dad says tht I should do my work on my own...I should look after myself ...I should spend time wid myself..... I should know how to give myself what I need. And I think to experience peace, I need to be relaxed.

sometimes I also feel that Spending quality time with the ones whom I love or say who are very close to me can touch my life . So,I am just making an effort in my relationships with family and friends to communicate honestly and with love. Such actions can heal old wounds and forge new bonds that are based on love and respect. I wish this behavior of mine may help me to create peacefulness and calmness in both myself and others. well I think as human beings, it is good to remember those who are struggling or experiencing rough and tough times. Consider volunteering at the local food bank or donating clothing. By giving of myself towards good deeds,I will generate positive energy that will be reflected back to me many times over.

I hope that I will consider my own suggestions in thinking about my hopes for 2009. By taking care of myself and focusing on the positives in my life and the world, I can help myself to spread peace, hope and love.

*****************HAPPY NEW YEAR FRIENDS :) ***********

IT in 2009

New research suggests that information and communications technologies can be used to make the world economy more energy and carbon efficient.

REALLY COOL......I LOVED IT BYHEART :)