Since last so many days,I was feeling like my blog is lonely without me as I know what is called loneliness !! but anyways finally the last month of 2009.It was a very memorable year for me,afterall I have completed my masters this year and started my journey :). Even have very memorable and touchy moments this year.
But to be honest,this time of year, visions of festive parties and gatherings come to my mind. That's because I tend to have great fun with my friends during the end of year...whether it was school life or college life.But dont know the exact reason why this year some of my friends complain of experiencing empty and depressed feelings, even when they have lovely families and many dear friends.Its really strange.Still having 10 more days to wait and just hoping that we all will have party time on 31st Dec.lets see...
Well let me think about myself.whenever I feel down,I used to contact a friend I haven't spoken to in a while, attending a party with a close friend, or even visiting that old auntie who is probably secretly feeling lonely too. I strongly feel like Choosing to get out there and being with people regardless of my own situation can really help me reduce feelings of loneliness.
Even the act of giving is also an effective way to eliminate feelings of loneliness. When I choose to help others who cannot help themselves or for whom I want to do something byheart,I feel like I am connecting with my fellow man.Or even volunteering my time for the things I love to do.
I really love to treat myself to something special like going for a family get to gather, indulging in my favorite hobby, or going with friends for a favorite movie or say reading a good book.These tricks really help me to come out of some of the uncontrolled situations.
Good bye to 2009 :D
-Hemali
