For me, certainly there are many factors beyond my control that can affect me. So, I have been searching for the ways to regain some sense of control and I guess the first thing I need to do is to work on a vision of how I want my life to be, as well as a clear plan on how to get there. It is surprising how many times I ask myself about the direction I want to go in, only to discover that I am simply wandering along just letting life happen to them, all the while wishing that my dreams would come true.
But sometimes I strongly feel like Why should I sit back, waiting for life to happen as it will, when I have the power to set my own goals and the energy and desire to make my dreams a reality? Setting goals puts me squarely in charge of my own life, and that is a very desirable situation, That is why I have decided to follow few simple tricks I have found helpful in making goal setting even easier and more successful.
Parents says be sure to state your goal in positive terms. For example, "I am always on time" is preferable rather than saying "I am never late". My sir told me that write down your goal on paper and it will help to anchor it in your mind, so write it down every day, and make certain that you keep your goal centered on you and not someone else.My friend says spend time with your self,ask your self what you want,listen your heart what it says and you will be clear with what you want from life.
for me, I personally feel like if I have goals that are set for the future, my subconscious mind will keep those goals in the future.So for me,it is best to always write my goals as if they were already happening or had already happened.The think I most like is whenever I write my goal...I used to imagine myself already being,doing or having the things that I am dreaming about
I hope that my imagination will help me to make my dreams a reality.
