Megical Week to Move Ahead with Dreams

Opps ! Its been ages since I posted my last blog post. But today I am again here. Hemali, the same girl who believes in enjoying life to the fullest.


This morning I waked up just before soft pink glow over the sunshine. Even though the weather has grown colder and the day was a bit cloudier, I still enjoyed being up early and sitting with my first cup of tea with family, watching the world around me and coming up to life. I was really enjoying.Not sure why but in past few months, there seems to be much harder situations in my world that comes from intolerance. Although most of us have little control over this events and time by time I realized that its a part of life.

I would say it really takes a lot of strength to be compassionate, especially when you are up against harshness, cruelty, anger and fear. Some mistake are being considered as a sign of weakness. What if the difficult behavior you experienced actually had nothing to do with you? 


Well well ! that is not much important for me now. Today ! I just want to think about me and him :) I am having a loving partner who takes care of me more than my self. When I am busy, he helps. When I cry, he try to get smile on my face. When I get angry, he used to do childishness. When I am tensed about something, he used to explain. When I ask for something, he used to be more happy than me. When I tease him, he used to sketch up my funny pics. The days and nights would be short if I start writing about him here. But I would really say he is none other than the love of my life. 


Since last few months, I am realizing that I am being mature enough. I know its kinda joke but yeah its true as well. I wasn't knowing what is called Relationship. But now I can feel what it is!! The most common thing about both of us is our common DREAM. And these days, we feel that we are stepping up the ladder of that Dream. God Bless Us. 


In my life I have always noticed that when I focus on clarifying what I observe, feel, need, and want, rather than on diagnosing and judging, I can discover my own better life with good friends and family. If I am able to look at other people and myself with this wider heart, I can begin to change the quality of my own life. Hoping to have the same positive attitude for the life ahead.


Someone has truly said that, Once we find peace within ourselves, we will find it around us.


- Hemali

Flashback to the year 2009 :P

Since last so many days,I was feeling like my blog is lonely without me as I know what is called loneliness !! but anyways finally the last month of 2009.It was a very memorable year for me,afterall I have completed my masters this year and started my journey :). Even have very memorable and touchy moments this year.

But to be honest,this time of year, visions of festive parties and gatherings come to my mind. That's because I tend to have great fun with my friends during the end of year...whether it was school life or college life.But dont know the exact reason why this year some of my friends complain of experiencing empty and depressed feelings, even when they have lovely families and many dear friends.Its really strange.Still having 10 more days to wait and just hoping that we all will have party time on 31st Dec.lets see...

Well let me think about myself.whenever I feel down,I used to contact a friend I haven't spoken to in a while, attending a party with a close friend, or even visiting that old auntie who is probably secretly feeling lonely too. I strongly feel like Choosing to get out there and being with people regardless of my own situation can really help me reduce feelings of loneliness.

Even the act of giving is also an effective way to eliminate feelings of loneliness. When I choose to help others who cannot help themselves or for whom I want to do something byheart,I feel like I am connecting with my fellow man.Or even volunteering my time for the things I love to do.

I really love to treat myself to something special like going for a family get to gather, indulging in my favorite hobby, or going with friends for a favorite movie or say reading a good book.These tricks really help me to come out of some of the uncontrolled situations.

Good bye to 2009 :D

-Hemali

Me feeling my dreams :)

For me, certainly there are many factors beyond my control that can affect me. So, I have been searching for the ways to regain some sense of control and I guess the first thing I need to do is to work on a vision of how I want my life to be, as well as a clear plan on how to get there. It is surprising how many times I ask myself about the direction I want to go in, only to discover that I am simply wandering along just letting life happen to them, all the while wishing that my dreams would come true.

But sometimes I strongly feel like Why should I sit back, waiting for life to happen as it will, when I have the power to set my own goals and the energy and desire to make my dreams a reality? Setting goals puts me squarely in charge of my own life, and that is a very desirable situation, That is why I have decided to follow few simple tricks I have found helpful in making goal setting even easier and more successful.

Parents says be sure to state your goal in positive terms. For example, "I am always on time" is preferable rather than saying "I am never late". My sir told me that write down your goal on paper and it will help to anchor it in your mind, so write it down every day, and make certain that you keep your goal centered on you and not someone else.My friend says spend time with your self,ask your self what you want,listen your heart what it says and you will be clear with what you want from life.

for me, I personally feel like if I have goals that are set for the future, my subconscious mind will keep those goals in the future.So for me,it is best to always write my goals as if they were already happening or had already happened.The think I most like is whenever I write my goal...I used to imagine myself already being,doing or having the things that I am dreaming about

I hope that my imagination will help me to make my dreams a reality.

Importance of little things in my life

Every day, there are things in my life that I dismiss as luck or chance or simply take for granted. Certainly there are times when events throw me completely off balance or make me feel afraid. But I think that most of the time I am so involved with my daily routine, whether it be with work, responsibilities, friends and family, that I forget to notice the things around me that make my life better. According to me the truth is that, no matter what is going on in my life, there are no ordinary moments, no minutes or seconds that are meaningless. And most of all, I will never get back those moments that pass without recognition.

Thats why it makes sense to look for the daily gifts .I still remeber today in the morning I awoke to hear birdsong outside my window and then got up and had enjoyable moments while mom and dad were talking abt my childhood habits ...laughed a lot at tht moment. Later during the day enjoyed music on the whole way frm my home to office...then I came upon one cute cat taking advantage of a golden patch of sun glowing across my office stairs. I enjoyed some playful moments with tht kitty, then I was serious about my work..enjoyed wid colleagues... all the while feeling grateful for the little things, the many small pleasant gifts in my life, like funny moments, a happy cat, music and singing birds.

At first glance these things may seem rather unimportant, but when I think about what life might be like without them, I appreciate them all the more, and the bigger and more wonderful they seem to be. And if I think about it, I may agree that the little things are what either drive me crazy or make me happy. So, the little things in life really are important, even if they may not seem to be at the time.

For me, the best thing about recognizing such moments is that when I pay attention and open myself up to them, I notice them all the more and feel like I may even attract more of them my way. The end result is that I am happier and more content with my life and consider each day different in its own way. I am feeling like little miracles happen every day. Flowers bloom, babies are born and we get to be a living. Life is really wonderful.

Keep Smiling
Hemali

Confused Mind :( :)

There is no doubt that sometimes I am totally confused. That is why today I have decided to write about transforming my confusions or experiences into valuable moments for my future successes. I know confused mind is never pleasant, but that does not make them bad. They are a natural part of my life's flow. Believe it or not, there are benefits to experiencing such situations.

I think I can learn valuable lessons that will benefit me in the end. My confused mind causes me to reprioritize my life. These periods give me the opportunity to think about the things that are important to me and remind me not to take them for granted. Confusions can also strengthen my relationships and communities. In times of need or say solution, friends/family naturally pull together. These are the times when I need others and they need me.

For me my own confused mind forces me to be more innovative by pushing me to seek new directions and encourage me to be more flexible and determined. But on the other hand confusing situations can also be a heart touching experience by reminding me that I am human with heart, just like everyone around me. I hope that my own thoughts will help me to confront the times I am living right now. So the next time whenever I feel the weight of my current confusions, I will give myself a pat on the back for all that I am dealing with and give a hug to those who mean so much to me. I wish this post of mine will help me to put my current confused mind in perspective and give me new courage and patience in tackling them.

Have a Good Day !!
Hemali

My New Year

ohhh after a long time I am again here on my blog...I have never thought that someone will find my blog and read this as well as write comments here....but frankly speaking I am writing here for myself and that too in a free time or say jst my hobby :) If I am hurting any1's feelings then Sorry.

well this is my first post in 2009 sooo let me flash back to d last year.....When I think back on 2008, I can say with certainty that the year has been far from boring. but on a more positive side, people around the globe seem more interested in peace than ever before. Focusing on peace and hope is a great way to start the new year. For me peace and hope begin inside of me and then, like a rippling effect, spread outward to those around me, like my friends, family, coworkers and more. oohhh I think thts a wonderful way to spread positive thoughts and energy whts say ?? I can invite the positive into my own life.

My dad says tht I should do my work on my own...I should look after myself ...I should spend time wid myself..... I should know how to give myself what I need. And I think to experience peace, I need to be relaxed.

sometimes I also feel that Spending quality time with the ones whom I love or say who are very close to me can touch my life . So,I am just making an effort in my relationships with family and friends to communicate honestly and with love. Such actions can heal old wounds and forge new bonds that are based on love and respect. I wish this behavior of mine may help me to create peacefulness and calmness in both myself and others. well I think as human beings, it is good to remember those who are struggling or experiencing rough and tough times. Consider volunteering at the local food bank or donating clothing. By giving of myself towards good deeds,I will generate positive energy that will be reflected back to me many times over.

I hope that I will consider my own suggestions in thinking about my hopes for 2009. By taking care of myself and focusing on the positives in my life and the world, I can help myself to spread peace, hope and love.

*****************HAPPY NEW YEAR FRIENDS :) ***********

IT in 2009

New research suggests that information and communications technologies can be used to make the world economy more energy and carbon efficient.

REALLY COOL......I LOVED IT BYHEART :)

Unforgettable experience of mine

Recently, I was having dinner with my didi and jiju at a local restaurant on a bitterly cold evening. As we left the restaurant we came upon an elderly homeless man who was asking another couple for loose change. I heard the woman say to her partner, "Don't give him anything. He will just spend it on drugs or alcohol." As the couple ducked their heads and scurried away, the homeless man turned his attention to us.

While I was thinking about the best way to help this man, jiju suddenly pulled up a car next to him, he rolled down the window, and he took a packet that looked like a wrapped sandwich and placed in the man's hands along with a pair of his gloves and scarf that he had been wearing. With a surprised look on his face, the old man thanked both didi and jiju. He tucked the sandwich away in the pocket of his tattered coat, then he put on the gloves and wrapped the scarf around his neck and ears.

I must tell you that I was very humbled by all of this. I consider myself a giving person and someone who goes out of her way to be helpful to others, but that night, while I was deciding the best course of action,didi and jiju stepped in and actually did something practical and helpful.

I then looked into my bag, pulled out some money and handed it to the elderly man, who thanked me several times. Afterwards I saw him go into the corner market and come out with a bag. He walked over to a homeless woman in a nearby doorway of a shop and gave her the bag. Inside was a container of formula, which she poured into a bottle, and began to feed to a baby she had tucked underneath many layers of coats and blankets. The man took off the scarf and added it to the protective bundle surrounding the infant. And for the second time in one night, I felt humbled.

This experience really reinforced for me the importance of listening to my heart and being willing to just do something, no matter how small, when I see a need. We always have the choice to do something when we see the need, and we shouldn't underestimate what we can do. The things we do give -- a sandwich, a scarf, money or even just a friendly smile at the right time, may be more important than we will ever know.

My favourite pastime : SPENDING TIME WID NATURE :)

How long has it been since I expressed my creativity? In the daily rush to meet deadlines and fulfill obligations, my creative self often gets shuffled to the sidelines. And that's not a good thing as my creativity is so closely connected to my sense of self-fulfillment. Creativity helps me to experience the magical and playful side of life. It lets me explore my passions and express myself artistically.

In my case, my preferred creative passion is my garden. I love spending time tending to my rose plants. They delight my senses and fill me with much joy and satisfaction. It is a very grounding pastime, and one that I also get to share with others as well by spending many glorious hours talking about our gardening experiences.

Sadly, many people don't consider themselves creative, especially if they don't write, paint or play music. But that is a limited perspective of creativity. Within each and every one of us exists an artistic being just waiting for the opportunity to shine. And,I think, that is not to be taken lightly!

My creative expression touches me on a very personal level. It can be as simple and spontaneous as singing while driving car or say my pleasure. It can be a playful moment of making up a silly things or making my home a special place for me and for those close to me to relax and enjoy.

So,my friend (specially Riddhi I used to call her Rydham :-),one of my best friends), how do you express your creativity, and when was the last time you did that? If it's been a while, I hope my thoughts (I know I know for u its lecture ) will serve as an inspirational reminder to exercise your inner artist! Just open yourself up to the possibilities around you, and hopefully you will find ways to explore, nurture and enjoy your creative side!

After ipod,I want BlackBerry Pearl- :)

I wanted @least apple ipod or iphone initially...and I am having my Apple ipod with me now and frankly speaking its jst an awesome gadget.The interesting thing about my ipod is tht they people tried to integrate some of the functionalities of iphone into that mini ipod too...so there is a deep feeling like I am using iphone workings too :)

but as we all know choices are endless and may be I am d top on d list to prove it correctly anyhow..:D
After having my ipod,I am turning to BlackBerry Pearl-The real smartphone:


"This smartphone offers features that I have been wanting for years."

A precious gift

This is a gift I received from one of my dearest friend Vipula...I really love this gift dear..and today I am sharing this gift here on my blog too

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

dedicated to my best friends only :

"Friendship is not about finding similarities,
it is about respecting differences.
You are not my friend coz you are like me,
but because i accept you and respect you the way you are."

Geeky Speaky Hemali...hehe

I dont know really what is this called...my friends are saying that am crazy...Is it really soooo ???
naahhhhh...not obviously...
But I still remeber those days, I always had debate wid one of my classmate on topic like girls have a better love of gadgets than guys !! but frankly speaking I always love that discussion.Don't believe me? Well then, do u know the dictionary definition of a gadget. According to "dictionary.com" a "Gadget" is "A small specialized mechanical or electronic device" or "a device that [is] very useful for a particular job ". Wow - really specific eh?

I still remember sitting in elementary or high school with my peers. The boys would come in with a wooden pencil and a pen. Maybe a pink eraser. Likely, they packed all of these things in their pockets. On the other hand, the girls would arrive with cute little pencil cases crammed full of mechanical pencils, glow in the dark pens, purple erasers, sticky notes, etc. etc. All their things would be nicely organized in different, well, gadgets. Guys would have nothing to do with the cute little pencil cases - they weren't "manly" enough. Girls on the other hand, if it could be used for a special purpose or "particular job", we'd be all over it. Hmmmmm.... looks to me like even at an early age, girls have a better love of gadgets than guys.

on my last birthday, my dad gave me a car as my gift nd truely speaking It was really a gr8 gift for me..love u dad...but dont know wht happened to me and my first que to my dad was like "isnt thr a DVD player in my car??? "

Hey, stop looking at me like I'm an alien as I'm walking around with my headphones in my ears and my BlackBerry on my belt. I'm freaking normal damnit (at least, that's what the voices in my head keep telling me....:)

Friends always Hurt you the Most

This is a post which I am writing exactly 1 day before the friendship day but really confused !!

I really honestly dont know what to do ?
some of my friends told me what to do and what not,
But what if I cant do that then ?
yesterday ! some of my frieds hurted me...and there was even my fault too...I was soooo frusteted that I was not even trying to get their situation....afterall..everyone has their own life and responsibility..really SORRY

But its fine...I am really trying to understand them by heart

Friendship means sharing…People learn to share from friendship,
Share everything they have in life,
Friendship is like stars, Even though we always see them togetherAlways mean to each other…But, Sometimes they argue! Friendship is like flower, Soft but strong!
Friendship is like sun, Bright and beautiful!

Friendship is everything in life, Life without friendship is like life without air…
Life without friendship is like eats without food
AndLife without friendship is like body without soul…
Friendship is wide!
Anybody can be our friend, Our parents, our grandparents, our sister, our brother and even our school principal!
Friendship….Is everything!

Ten important words in my life

"I" The most selfish letter..hehe.. "Avoid It"

"WE" The most satisfying word..."Use It"

"EGO" The most poisonous word..."Kill It"

"LOVE" The most used word..."Value It"

"SMILE" The most pleasing word..."Keep It"

"RUMOUR" The most spreading word..."Ignore It"

"SUCCESS" The hardest working word..."Achieve It"

"JEALOUSY" The most enviable word..."Distance It"

"KNOWLEDGE" The most powerful word..."Acquire It"

"CONFIDENCE" The most essential word..."Trust It"

..........Thats It ! ...............................

Take the Time

"I dont remember exactly where I read this but dont know why since I read these important and interesting points its impossible for me to forget !! I just love this title now "Take the time". sometimes in our busy schedule it helps us to realize that one must have time for him/her self.
So now its a part of my new post too. "

TAKE THE TIME

Take time to laugh - Its a music of Heart,

Take time to cry - Its a sign of large Heart,

Take time to read - Its a source of Knowledge,

Take time to hear - Its a power of Intelligence,

Take time to think - Its a key to success,

Take time to play - Its a freshness of Childhood,

Take time to dream - Its a breath of Happiness,

Take time to Live , Because Time passes...
QUICKLY and NEVER returns...

Top on the List - Hemali's favourites

wow ! what an idea ! this is my dream music system for my dream car

The MacBook Air is the thinnest laptop in the world. Beautifully crafted body and some innovative features.

I just loveeeeeeeeee it !!!

New iphone
I do actually love this product.
From teh very first day of its launch , I m a fan of this product and iphone is on the top of the list if someone ask me to give list of what I want !![:D]